MINOR: Upgrade to Apache POM 35 and identify fixes needed to have CI happy

[jbonofre]

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[jbonofre]

For the JNI Ubuntu, I see this message from archery:

    × python setup.py egg_info did not run successfully.
    │ exit code: 1
    ╰─> [1 lines of output]
        Python < 3.10 is not supported
        [end of output]

Checking for an update.

[lidavidm]

https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/blob/main/compose.yaml#L102

I think we need to update our .env to pick up a newer tag like amd64-python-3.13-wheel-manylinux-2014-vcpkg-f7423ee180c4b7f40d43402c2feb3859161ef625

[jbonofre]

Yup agree. It's what I gonna try.

[raulcd]

The error with cffi not being available for free-threaded means it's trying to use free-threaded wheels (an python) which is unexpected from what I understand:

        RuntimeError: CFFI does not support the free-threaded build of CPython 3.13. Upgrade to free-threaded 3.14 or newer to use CFFI with the free-threaded build.