Bug fix: creating the cache folder in parallel

[leouieda]

Add exist_ok to os.makedirs in case the cache folder is being created in parallel (multiple jobs trying to call makedirs at the same time). Includes a test case with threads and processes to make sure it works.

Fixes #170 and fixes #150

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