Client member list state gets broken with hot restart

This behavior has changed in hazelcast 3.12. For clients to be able to work with 3.12 members and hot-restart feature, the fix should be applied to all clients. 


issue https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/issues/14839
fix https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/pull/14844
test https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/issues/14839