[python] try to use bundled distutils to setuptools during setup

[StrikerRUS]

Eliminate warning:

C:\Miniconda37-x64\envs\test-env\lib\site-packages\setuptools\distutils_patch.py:26: UserWarning: Distutils was imported before Setuptools. This usage is discouraged and may exhibit undesirable behaviors or errors. Please use Setuptools' objects directly or at least import Setuptools first.
  "Distutils was imported before Setuptools. This usage is discouraged "

Refer to pypa/setuptools#2143, pypa/setuptools#2259.

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