fix: Skip changing meta if nodeID not match with channel

[XuanYang-cn]

See also: #31648
pr: #31666

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 89.47368% with 4 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 82.36%. Comparing base (91cdada) to head (feedf62).
Report is 3 commits behind head on 2.3.

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- Coverage   82.39%   82.36%   -0.03%     
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  Files         838      848      +10     
  Lines      124409   124513     +104     
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+ Hits       102507   102557      +50     
- Misses      18627    18675      +48     
- Partials     3275     3281       +6     

Files	Coverage Δ
internal/datanode/services.go	82.85% <100.00%> (-0.05%)	⬇️
internal/datacoord/compaction.go	94.27% <89.18%> (-0.58%)	⬇️

... and 168 files with indirect coverage changes

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/lgtm

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