src: add --napi-modules to whitelist

Add --napi-modules to whitelist for NODE_OPTIONS
as its needed so that we can run the tests that
come along with native modules.

PR-URL: #12733
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Gibson Fahnestock <gibfahn@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>

src/node.cc

@@ -3736,6 +3736,7 @@ static void CheckIfAllowedInEnv(const char* exe, bool is_env,
    "--force-fips",
    "--openssl-config",
    "--icu-data-dir",
    "--napi-modules",

    // V8 options
    "--max_old_space_size",