Improve JVM error messages for multiple resolves

[Eric-Arellano]

Probably something like:

• NoCompatibleResolveException should suggest remedies #14864
  • Note that Improve error message for dependencies on incompatible Python resolves #15416 was written very generically such that it should be easy to wire up JVM.
• Improve help and error message for [python-infer].unowned_dependency_behavior #15334
  • A big challenge is that JVM does not yet have a mechanism for unowned dependency owners. That error message is crucial for when dependency inference fails because a target exists, but with the wrong resolve.