add drop column, rename column/index for incompatible ddl changes

[GMHDBJD]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #596 pingcap/tiflow#9850

What is changed and how it works?

• add drop column
• add rename column
• add rename index
• regard DropDatabase,DropTable,DropIndex,RenameTable,TruncateTable,DropSchema,DropTablePartition,TruncateTablePartition as incompatible ddls

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Code changes

• Has exported function/method change
• Has exported variable/fields change
• Has interface methods change
• Has persistent data change

Side effects

• Possible performance regression
• Increased code complexity
• Breaking backward compatibility

Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch
• Need to update the documentation
• Need to be included in the release note

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Timeline:

• 2023-10-31 07:34:38.272382312 +0000 UTC m=+2938475.859492458: ☑️ agreed by lichunzhu.
• 2023-10-31 07:34:54.20139536 +0000 UTC m=+2938491.788505505: ✖️🔁 reset by GMHDBJD.
• 2023-10-31 07:40:04.016302574 +0000 UTC m=+2938801.603412718: ☑️ agreed by lichunzhu.