chunk: [experimental] new wide chunk in prealloc way

[lysu]

What problem does this PR solve?

experimental new wide chunk in prealloc way, inspired by #7916

pprof wide table query under dead loop will find newFixedColumn and its make([]T, y, z) will be called many times and use many time, and it's also let GC into bad

What is changed and how it works?

so this PR want to deduce newFixedColumn and makeslice by prealloc a pre-calucated memory arena, then direct use them if column number is big.

WIP for run-all-tests and real-world's performance.

Check List

Tests

• This PR just want run-all-tests and find any thing breaks

add bench two way to New 45 columns chunk.

pkg: github.com/pingcap/tidb/util/chunk
BenchmarkNormalNewWideChunk-8   	  300000	      4290 ns/op	    6192 B/op	     137 allocs/op
BenchmarkFastNewWideChunk-8     	 1000000	      1847 ns/op	    6576 B/op	       5 allocs/op
PASS

Code changes

• Impl

Side effects

• No

Related changes

• No need to merge, just experimental

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