feat: add autoDestroy prop(#19536);

[kerm1it]

添加了autoDestroy属性，默认为false，和destroyPopupOnHide不同的是关闭后直接销毁Portal和子内容，destroyPopupOnHide只会删除Portal的子元素。
#19536

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Codecov Report

Merging #178 into master will increase coverage by 0.05%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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##           master     #178      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   85.68%   85.74%   +0.05%     
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  Files           7        7              
  Lines         503      505       +2     
  Branches      145      146       +1     
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+ Hits          431      433       +2     
  Misses         72       72              

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/index.tsx	82.22% <100.00%> (+0.10%)	⬆️

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[kerm1it]

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https://github.com/react-component/trigger/releases/tag/v4.2.0