Upgrade Cassandra driver to 4.18.0 and change coordinates from com.datastax.oss to org.apache.cassandra

[mp911de]

As per spring-projects/spring-data-cassandra#1467 and https://lists.apache.org/thread/mnvf77vs4bxg6z47y5lqxzqytm7ctqc7, the Cassandra driver groupId has changed from com.datastax.oss to org.apache.cassandra.

Spring Data Cassandra 4.3 M1 will switch to the new coordinates.

[BenchmarkingBuffalo]

Hi @wilkinsona,
I would like to work on this issue, if you decide to assign it to me.

[wilkinsona]

Thanks for the offer, @BenchmarkingBuffalo, but this can't be worked on yet as we need to wait for a change in Spring Data. We also prefer to make this sort of straightforward dependency-related change ourselves.