feat: add embedding-aware graph query interfaces and parallel retrieval

[CaralHsi]

Description

Summary:

• Refactored get_node, get_nodes, export_graph, etc. to support include_embedding flag
• Updated Neo4j and NebulaGraph implementations to support embedding filtering
• Enabled parallel execution for _graph_recall and _vector_recall in Searcher
• Minor fixes in reorganizer and reranker to align with new structure

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