[CI] Fix more CI issues

[Saadnajmi]

Please select one of the following

• I am removing an existing difference between facebook/react-native and microsoft/react-native-macos 👍
• I am cherry-picking a change from Facebook's react-native into microsoft/react-native-macos 👍
• I am making a fix / change for the macOS implementation of react-native
• I am making a change required for Microsoft usage of react-native

Summary:

This PR fixes two followup issues uncovered on our publish pipeline:

1. @react-native-mac/virtualized-lists v0.73.3 got published to NPM, but the followup git commit to delete the change file and bump versions never happened. Let's manually sync by doing both.

2. In 0.73-stable, some of the upstream NPM publish scripts got refactored that removed some of our diffs to not use the process.env.CIRCLE_TAG variable. Let's just bring back our diff to use the package.json version instead of relying on a CircleCI environment variable.

Changelog:

[INTERNAL] [FIXED] - Fix more CI issues

Test Plan:

CI should pass.