[0.74] Publish virtualized-lists in preparation for 0.74 release

[Saadnajmi]

Summary:

To publish React Native macOS 0.74, we need to publish @react-native-mac/virtualized-lists first. This change prepares us to do by doing the following:

• Updates our pipeline to allow the beachball publish job to run from non-main branches (like 0.74-stable)
• Lowers virtualized-lists by a patch version
• Adds a change file for virtualized-lists. This will add back the patch version. I also took care to make sure this doesn't cause a dependent patbumph to React Native macOS.

Test Plan:

Manually ran npx beachball publish to see what the change would be, and it looked right.