feat(COMPASS-4530): Increase default max time ms to 1 minute

[gribnoysup]

Description

Change the default max time ms to 1 minute and allow for custom labels on the fields so we can add some spaces to the field label

Part of https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/COMPASS-4530

Dependents

• This change in query-parser needs to be merged first: https://github.com/mongodb-js/query-parser/pull/66

Types of changes

• Backport Needed
• Patch (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• Minor (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Major (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

[addaleax]

Looks great! 👍