store: fix routine/client leak when get a cached store (#42779)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #42779

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #42778

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  • return error after create spkv and store, check there should not have routine leak
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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fix routine/client leak when get a cached store

[HuSharp]

/test unit-test

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[HuSharp]

@D3Hunter PTAL, thx!

[HuSharp]

cherry-pick #42885 as well, which resulted from #42779

[HuSharp]

update client-go to sync related pr tikv/client-go#944
can check more detail in pr description

for cp #42779 and #42885 PTAL, thx! @D3Hunter @hawkingrei
for client-go update, PTAL, thx! @nolouch @lhy1024

[HuSharp]

/retest-required

[D3Hunter]

/lgtm

[ti-chi-bot]

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Timeline:

• 2023-08-17 16:55:01.037611848 +0000 UTC m=+822865.586627835: ☑️ agreed by nolouch.
• 2023-08-18 01:57:45.739542601 +0000 UTC m=+855430.288558588: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.

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