feat: add ability to pass options to setValue calls

[AlCalzone]

One of the most requested features is finally here. Behind this abstract title hides the possibility to use transition durations in the setValue API. Example:

await node.setValue(
	{
		commandClass: CommandClasses["Multilevel Switch"],
		property: "targetValue",
	},
	10,
	{
		transitionDuration: "15s",
	},
);

The method has gained a third optional argument, which is an options bag for the underlying calls. Each setValue implementation will choose the options it understands, so the object can be configured in one location and reused for all calls.

For now, this only supports the transitionDuration option, but allows us to add more in the future.

fixes: #1321
fixes: home-assistant/core#46234
fixes: home-assistant/core#48470

related: zwave-js/zwave-js-ui#1159