Fix calculate training time by summing all elapsed times instead the last one

[itzhakstern]

What does this PR do?

Fixes an overflow issue that occurred when running Trainer.fit with validation enabled and a large number of epochs in combination with the ThroughputMonitor callback.

The problem was caused by incorrect computation of the training duration inside the on_validation_end method.
At the end of validation, ThroughputMonitor calculates both the validation duration and the time gap between training and validation in order to exclude it from the throughput calculation.
As part of this, it attempts to determine the total training time for the epoch by summing the values in the _time array.

However, this approach is incorrect because at each step, the _time array stores the cumulative time elapsed since t0, not incremental step durations. Therefore, summing the array results in an exaggerated total.

For example:
If t0 = 0 and an epoch has 5 steps, each taking 1 second, the _time array will look like [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5].
Summing this array yields 15 seconds, whereas the actual total training time is only 5 seconds.

Over a sufficiently large number of epochs, this summation error caused the accumulated time to grow without bound, eventually leading to a numeric overflow and runtime failure (as described in the linked issue).

The fix replaces the summation logic with use of the last element in _time, which correctly represents

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In addition, ValueError: Expected the value to increase could occur in real (non-mocked) runs when validation was interleaved with training.
This happened because t0 was updated after validation, while the _time array still contained values based on the previous reference point.
This issue did not appear in the original tests, since they used mocked time.perf_counter values that always increase monotonically.

To address this, _start() now resets the internal arrays when trainer.state.fn == TrainerFn.FITTING, ensuring the throughput state is reinitialized after validation while still accumulating correctly during fitting.

Fixes #21257

Before submitting

Runing trainer.fit with a lot of epocks with the ThroughputMonitor was failed.

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