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一个 AI 恋爱教练 技能包——专为 Claude 等 AI 助手设计，提供结构化的两性社交分析与建议能力。以中文为主，每个技能文件都附带完整英文镜像（*.en.md）。

这是一个完整的、可复用的 dating-coach 技能，包含：

• 方法论框架：从吸引 → 平淡 → 暧昧 → 恋爱 → 长期相处的全周期路线图
• 聊天记录分析引擎：逐条解读信号、识别废测、揪出错误、给出可复制的回复
• 两性知识库：搭讪、聊天、约会、形象、废物测试、女性心理等主题
• 对象跟踪系统：支持同时跟进多个对象，跨会话持续更新记录
• 隐私第一设计：支持代号管理，个人数据与技能分离

⚠️ 底线：这是"教练"而非"套路"。技能内置硬性底线：真诚 > 技巧、尊重对方意愿、明显没戏就果断止损、自我建设才是根本。坚决拒绝欺骗、操控、贬低羞辱、未成年人、骚扰跟踪等内容。

.claude/
├── commands/
│   └── coach.md              # Slash command 入口（中英双语）
└── skills/
    └── dating-coach/
        ├── SKILL.md           # 主技能定义（角色、流程、路由）— 中文
        ├── SKILL.en.md        # 英文镜像
        ├── TESTPLAN.md / .en.md
        └── references/
            ├── chat-analysis.md / .en.md     # 聊天记录分析方法论
            ├── knowledge-base.md / .en.md    # 完整两性知识库
            ├── lifecycle.md / .en.md         # 全周期路线图
            └── profile-template.md / .en.md  # 对象情况记录模板

实际运行的技能以中文 SKILL.md 为准；.en.md 是面向非中文读者的忠实英文参考。

方式一：作为 Claude 项目技能

1. 将本仓库添加为 Claude 项目的知识库或技能目录
2. 在对话中使用 /coach 命令调用，或让 AI 自动识别到该技能
3. 粘贴聊天记录即可获得逐条分析 + 建议回复

方式二：嵌入你自己的 AI 项目

复制 .claude/skills/dating-coach/ 目录到你的 AI 助手技能目录，按需调整。

• AI 助手：支持 skills/playbook 机制的 Claude 或其他 AI 平台
• 隐私：个人信息建议用代号，profiles/ 目录不要提交到公开仓库

MIT

An AI dating coach skill pack — built for Claude and other AI assistants, giving them a structured ability to analyze dating/relationship situations and offer grounded advice. Chinese is the primary working language; every skill file ships with a full English mirror (*.en.md).

A complete, reusable dating-coach skill, including:

• A methodology framework — a full-lifecycle roadmap: Attraction → Plateau → Flirtation → Relationship → Long-term.
• A chat-log analysis engine — reads her signals line by line, spots shit tests, calls out the user's mistakes, and gives a reply he can send as-is.
• A knowledge base — approaching, texting, dates, style/looks, display value, shit tests, female psychology, and more.
• A prospect-tracking system — follow several people at once, with profiles that persist and update across sessions.
• Privacy-first design — codename-based tracking; personal data stays separate from the skill.

⚠️ Ethos. This is coaching, not manipulation. The skill is built with hard guardrails: honesty over tactics, respect for the other person's wishes, cut your losses when there's clearly no interest, and self-improvement as the real foundation. It refuses anything involving deception, coercion, demeaning people, minors, or harassment.

.claude/
├── commands/
│   └── coach.md              # Slash-command entry (bilingual)
└── skills/
    └── dating-coach/
        ├── SKILL.md           # Main skill definition (role, flow, routing) — zh
        ├── SKILL.en.md        # English mirror
        ├── TESTPLAN.md / .en.md
        └── references/
            ├── chat-analysis.md / .en.md     # Chat-log analysis methodology
            ├── knowledge-base.md / .en.md    # Full knowledge base
            ├── lifecycle.md / .en.md         # Full-lifecycle roadmap
            └── profile-template.md / .en.md  # Prospect dossier template

The live skill runs from the Chinese SKILL.md; the .en.md files are faithful English references for non-Chinese readers.

Option 1 — as a Claude skill

1. Add this repo as a skills/knowledge directory for your Claude project.
2. In a conversation, call it with /coach, or let the AI auto-route to the skill.
3. Paste a chat log to get a line-by-line read plus a suggested reply.

Option 2 — drop it into your own AI project

Copy .claude/skills/dating-coach/ into your assistant's skills directory and adapt as needed.

• AI assistant: Claude or any platform that supports a skills/playbook mechanism.
• Privacy: use codenames for real people, and keep the profiles/ directory out of any public repo.

MIT