Allow to update require path with Node.js

[g3offrey]

Resolves : microsoft/TypeScript#25493
Resolves : #53681

Fix a regression appearing with : 1ee1759
Thanks for your help @mjbvz and @Andy-MS 👍

If something should be changed in this PR don't hesitate to notice it to me. 😄

[ghost]

The question of whether an update is needed can't be answered by looking at just one file. There might be a reference to even a non-module by a /// <reference> or through a tsconfig.json. So I think it would be better to remove this test entirely and unconditionally ask tsserver.

[mjbvz]

Yes this was a workaround to try to prevent microsoft/TypeScript#24914 from happening. I'll merge this but also add a version check so that we only do this on TS 2.9 and not on 3.0

[g3offrey]

It seems a better fix is coming ! Can't wait for it to land on my editor 👍

Thanks @mjbvz and @Andy-MS for helping me with this issue and for merging my PR.
That's very nice of you 😄