fix(query-devtools): Fix styling issues in devtool

[ardeora]

Fixes #5940
Fixes #5609

This change brings a few styling changes to the core devtools

1. Switches Emotion CSS to goober.

• Emotion in dev mode adds multiple style tags in dev mode. Since we use the devtools in dev mode primarily, there would be multiple style tags polluting the document
• Goober has the exact same API like Emotion but has a way lighter footprint
• All Goober devtools styles are added to a single style tag

2. Adds classnames to most elements of the devtools so that they can be targeted and styled with a custom stylesheet in user-land (Should custom panel styles be overridden by defaults? #5940)
3. More specific styles that do not get overriden by vite default template
4. Adjusting height/width of the devtools do not change the class name so more performant (devtools: adding lots of style attributes #5609)

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[TkDodo]

should we add documentation on how to overwrite custom styles?

also, are the options listed here still correct?

https://tanstack.com/query/v5/docs/react/devtools#options

I can see that panelProps etc has been removed, so we need to show how to do it now