feat(federated): keep a consistent state in the RefinementList life cycle (#3976)

* fix(state): alwasy keep helper refinement (refinement-list)

* fix: take previous configuration in account

also: call getConfiguration with a SearchParameters object, not a plain search parameters; this allows us to avoid conditions

* guard around getfacetvalues

* test: test helper behaviour for refine

We were relying on helper functions which are changing in algolia/algoliasearch-helper-js#738

* use provided params

* remove dead branch

* fix(dispose): remove maxValuesPerFacet

* chore: prog style comments

* chore: naming

Author: Haroenv