Replace AdaptedCache hashing library

[Fryuni]

Summary

Replace the object-hash library with node-object-hash, which is about 12x from our measurements on real world production data

The new library also does a single pass through the event event loop in case of hashing instead of 3, which makes its tail-end performance much shorter.

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