refactor(query): rename exchange hash to node to node hash

[zhang2014]

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Summary

refactor(query): rename exchange hash to node to node hash

• Enhance the semantics of hash between nodes and nodes to prepare for supporting thread-level hash.

• fixes: #[Link the issue here]

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