[DOC] Update dependency documentation

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PR summary

I guess that setuptools is really a build dependency? pybind11 was missing. pyparsing duplicated. Not sorting fully alphabetically since NumPy should be updated in #26443 (and it doesn't seem sorted anyway...).

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