chore(configs): alias prettier and eslint bins through the local config packages

[gribnoysup]

We're 2 majors behind for eslint and 1 major for prettier, before we start updating those I want to remove the need to update those everywhere. We did a similar thing for webpack some time ago and it made it way easier to maintain the version, so copying the approach for prettier and eslint:

• add bin exports for local prettier config and eslint config that alias those tools with a few small additions to make usage consistent
• remove prettier and eslint from dependencies everywhere except for the config packages
• remove duplicated prettier configs and ignores, those are pulled by the new bin automatically
  • specifically for ignores I left the ones that are notceably different from the default one

[lerouxb]

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[gribnoysup]

The new precommit doesn't skip some of the root files anymore that it was missing before (hence the massive diff) and I think that before this was happening by mistake, so I'm not planning to restore this behavior in the new precommit hook code. This got updated because I did a merge from main to resolve a conflict