Crazy ex

[z4295084-blip]

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Question

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iOS

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I unfortunately have a crazy narcissistic stalking ex-girlfriend using some type of AI spyware to get stuff off my phone. I’ve had personal informationally birth certificate, social drivers license and I wanna talk about the dual content that she just gave away for free look I just need the bitch off my fucking phone and I don’t wanna go to the feds. I would attach files, but she’s deleted out most of my shit. She scrubbed photos off my phone. I don’t even know how to get those back.

[Stark-SK]

Hi,

If you’re concerned that your iPhone or Apple account may be compromised, it’s better to focus on securing the device rather than assuming spyware.

1 - Change your Apple ID password immediately at https://appleid.apple.com/ and review all signed-in devices. Remove anything you don’t recognize.

2 - On your iPhone go to Settings -> your name -> Devices and check for unknown devices linked to your account.

3 - Go to Settings -> General -> VPN & Device Management and remove any profiles or management settings you didn’t install yourself.

4 - Check your apps and delete anything suspicious or unfamiliar.

5 - Update your iOS version from Settings -> General -> Software Update to ensure you have the latest security patches.

6 - If you think your data was deleted or altered, check Photos -> Recently Deleted and also log into iCloud.com to see if anything is still available.

7 - If the issue still feels unresolved, the safest step is to back up your important data and perform a full factory reset, then set the phone up again as new.

If you continue to notice unusual activity after this, contacting Apple Support or having the device checked by an authorized technician would be the most reliable option.

Stay focused on securing accounts and devices rather than trying to identify specific causes without verification.

[yogeshg-05]

Based on the information provided, it's difficult to determine whether spyware is involved or whether the issue is related to account access, device settings, or data recovery.

If personal documents or photos were lost, try to establish:

• Which accounts may have been accessed.
• Whether the files were deleted, moved, or shared.
• Whether backups exist (iCloud, Google Photos, external drives, etc.).

Focus on securing your accounts, preserving any evidence, and documenting what you know has happened. If identity documents may have been exposed, consider contacting the relevant authorities or service providers to protect those accounts.

This appears to be a personal device and account security issue rather than a GitHub-related issue, so you may receive more specialized assistance through Apple Support or a cybersecurity-focused forum.

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