[3.11] Moved most extension modules to the pythoncore project file (GH-107463)

[AraHaan]

Unlike normal backports, this change had to be done separately for main, 3.12, and 3.11 due to several reasons:

• 3.12 added the _wmi c++ extension module (C++ 20 standard)
• 3.13 removed the _msi c extension module and project file (which means needing to remove it from config.c and from pythoncore.vcxproj when I open pr to main)

Note: I lack the ability to edit the build scripts for linux and macos building so someone would have to assist with bringing these changes to those scripts as well.

Also I would recommend making changes starting with whichever one is easier (this version, the 3.12 version, or the main (3.13) version).

• Issue: Consider moving the modules in sources to build within the pythoncore project itself. #107463