Distributed tests failing on Amazon2023 AMI

[ZainRizvi]

🐛 Describe the bug

Something about the new Amazon2023 AMI is making some distributed tests fail, particularly tests that take nccl dumps during timeouts.

Failure 1: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/10047579686/job/27770963175

FAILED [90.0880s] distributed/test_c10d_nccl.py::NCCLTraceTestDumpOnTimeout::test_timeout_dumps_timing_enabled_False - AssertionError: None mismatch: None is not -6

Failure 2: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/10047579686/job/27770963494

____ NCCLTraceTestTimeoutDumpOnStuckRanks.test_timeout_dumps_on_stuck_ranks ____
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/test/distributed/test_c10d_nccl.py", line 4214, in test_timeout_dumps_on_stuck_ranks
    self.assertEqual(self._wait_process(0, timeout=90), -6)
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3721, in assertEqual
    raise error_metas.pop()[0].to_error(
AssertionError: None mismatch: None is not -6

Failure 3:
#129539

Repo steps

Here’s the minimal PR to repro (just 3 lines). With it you can see the results in CI and ssh into those machines.

https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/131479/files