Update torch-xpu-ops commit pin

[guangyey]

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• -> Update torch-xpu-ops commit pin #139041

Motivation

This PR intends to update torch-xpu-ops commit pin. It mainly includes the following two highlighted changes:

1. split the DLL library into 4 smaller libraries to avoid the 2G limitation on Windows;
2. some new operators added, for example, cdist, pdist, maxunpool2d, maxunpood3d, upsample_trilinear3d, Bessel operators`, etc...

Additional Context

We have to supply XPU device check logic in cdist and pdist ops.
This PR depends on #139050 to fix Windows build issue.

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[guangyey]

@pytorchbot rebase

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@pytorchbot started a rebase job onto refs/remotes/origin/viable/strict. Check the current status here

[pytorchmergebot]

Tried to rebase and push PR #139041, but it was already up to date. Try rebasing against main by issuing:
@pytorchbot rebase -b main

[guangyey]

@pytorchbot rebase -b main

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@pytorchbot started a rebase job onto refs/remotes/origin/main. Check the current status here

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Successfully rebased gh/guangyey/82/orig onto refs/remotes/origin/main, please pull locally before adding more changes (for example, via ghstack checkout https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/139041)

[guangyey]

@malfet and @atalman May I know if you could help review this PR?

[EikanWang]

#139050 landed.

[ZzEeKkAa]

Please include this fix intel/torch-xpu-ops#1032 to the PR

[ezyang]

@pytorchbot merge

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[guangyey]

Please include this fix intel/torch-xpu-ops#1032 to the PR

This is not must to have. Let's include this PR in the next commit update.

[guangyey]

@ezyang Thanks very much~