scripts: add an abstraction for the args that depend on each other and validate them in one place

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• scripts: Add an abstraction for how to restart pods. #9798 : 2 dependent PRs (#9799 , #9872 )
• scripts: add an abstraction for the args that depend on each other and validate them in one place #9797 👈 (View in Graphite)
• scripts: fix a bug where the get pod names did not use the namespace and context from args #9809
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scripts/prod/update_config_and_restart_nodes_lib.py line 600 at r1 (raw file):

    for index, config in enumerate(configs):
        print(f"Applying config {index}...")
        # apply_configmap(

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scripts/prod/update_config_and_restart_nodes_lib.py line 609 at r1 (raw file):

    if restart_strategy != RestartStrategy.NO_RESTART:
        for index, config in enumerate(configs):
            # restart_pod(

This is left commented out while in review to make sure we don't accidentally do something. Adding this blocking comment to avoid accidental merge with this still commented out