stable-25-3: Fix stucking SelfHealNodesStateUpdate cmd

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Cherry-pick:

• commit fb1fb25: Fix stucking SelfHealNodesStateUpdate cmd

PR was created by cherry-pick workflow run

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⚪ 2025-10-24 17:29:51 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-relwithdebinfo for fc25841 has started.
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🟡 2025-10-24 19:08:09 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. Going to retry failed tests...

Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
38558	35866	0	10	2662	20

⚪ 2025-10-24 19:11:44 UTC ya make is running... (failed tests rerun, try 2)
🟡 2025-10-24 19:32:27 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. Going to retry failed tests...

Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
978 (only retried tests)	956	0	1	1	20

⚪ 2025-10-24 19:32:40 UTC ya make is running... (failed tests rerun, try 3)
🟢 2025-10-24 19:52:19 UTC Tests successful.

Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
530 (only retried tests)	512	0	0	0	18

🟢 2025-10-24 19:52:28 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-10-24 19:52:46 UTC ydbd size 2.3 GiB changed* by +496 Bytes, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-25-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-25-3: 01fd546	merge: fc25841	diff	diff %
ydbd size	2 436 625 016 Bytes	2 436 625 512 Bytes	+496 Bytes	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	521 808 488 Bytes	521 808 616 Bytes	+128 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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🟢 2025-10-24 17:32:09 UTC The validation of the Pull Request description is successful.

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⚪ 2025-10-24 17:39:06 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-release-asan for fc25841 has started.
⚪ 2025-10-24 17:39:21 UTC Artifacts will be uploaded here
⚪ 2025-10-24 17:43:05 UTC ya make is running...
🟡 2025-10-24 19:57:32 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. This fail is not in blocking policy yet

Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
15893	15264	0	279	334	16

🟢 2025-10-24 19:58:54 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-10-24 19:59:18 UTC ydbd size 3.8 GiB changed* by +688 Bytes, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-25-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-25-3: 01fd546	merge: fc25841	diff	diff %
ydbd size	4 055 109 280 Bytes	4 055 109 968 Bytes	+688 Bytes	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 510 569 888 Bytes	1 510 570 208 Bytes	+320 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}