feat: Enhance container data handling and status synchronization

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What this PR does / why we need it?

在 Gecko / Firefox 浏览器中，如果容器页面开启高频自动刷新且停留一段时间，则浏览器会出现极为明显的卡顿现象，严重影响使用体验。

Profiler 排查显示 Vue 频繁 patch DOM 消耗大量 CPU，检查源码发现容器页刷新时会同时更新列表、状态统计、标签统计以及操作dropdown，单次刷新会触发多轮全量更新，vue 频繁 patch DOM 导致严重卡顿。

Summary of your change

修改更新逻辑，将 search(), refresh() 的更新逻辑改为并行拉取所有信息后统一合并，按需更新字段，减少 DOM patch 开销和无效更新，同时将容器状态 dropdown 改为弹出时渲染，避免随着 dom 一起全量更新等。

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