add dotnet build parameter to set cadl options

[chunyu3]

Description

Fix Azure/azure-sdk-for-net#34357

• add dotnet build parameter to set cadl emitter options

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[ArcturusZhang]

This is very helpful, we no longer need to manually change the build script to add the extra flag