Amazon Linux 2023: Preload cusparseLt.so (#144477)

Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/144433

Test with some debug statements added:

```
>>> import torch
trying to load libcublas.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cublas/lib/libcublas.so.12']
trying to load libcublas.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cublas/lib/libcublas.so.12
trying to load libcudnn.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cudnn/lib/libcudnn.so.9']
trying to load libcudnn.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cudnn/lib/libcudnn.so.9
trying to load libnvrtc.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_nvrtc/lib/libnvrtc.so.12']
trying to load libnvrtc.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_nvrtc/lib/libnvrtc.so.12
trying to load libcudart.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_runtime/lib/libcudart.so.12']
trying to load libcudart.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_runtime/lib/libcudart.so.12
trying to load libcupti.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_cupti/lib/libcupti.so.12']
trying to load libcupti.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cuda_cupti/lib/libcupti.so.12
trying to load libcufft.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cufft/lib/libcufft.so.11']
trying to load libcufft.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cufft/lib/libcufft.so.11
trying to load libcurand.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/curand/lib/libcurand.so.10']
trying to load libcurand.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/curand/lib/libcurand.so.10
trying to load libnvJitLink.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/nvjitlink/lib/libnvJitLink.so.12']
trying to load libnvJitLink.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/nvjitlink/lib/libnvJitLink.so.12
trying to load libcusparse.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cusparse/lib/libcusparse.so.12']
trying to load libcusparse.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cusparse/lib/libcusparse.so.12
trying to load libcusparseLt.so.*[0-9] from []
trying to load libcusparseLt.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/cusparselt/lib/libcusparseLt.so.0
trying to load libcusolver.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cusolver/lib/libcusolver.so.11']
trying to load libcusolver.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/cusolver/lib/libcusolver.so.11
trying to load libnccl.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/nccl/lib/libnccl.so.2']
trying to load libnccl.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/nccl/lib/libnccl.so.2
trying to load libnvToolsExt.so.*[0-9] from ['/usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-packages/nvidia/nvtx/lib/libnvToolsExt.so.1']
trying to load libnvToolsExt.so.*[0-9] from /usr/local/lib/python3.9/site-
packages/nvidia/nvtx/lib/libnvToolsExt.so.1
/usr/local/lib64/python3.9/site-packages/torch/_subclasses/functional_tensor.py:275: UserWarning: Failed to initialize NumPy: No module named 'numpy' (Triggered internally at /pytorch/torch/csrc/utils/tensor_numpy.cpp:81.)
  cpu = _conversion_method_template(device=torch.device("cpu"))
>>> exit()
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/144477
Approved by: https://github.com/Skylion007, https://github.com/nWEIdia

(cherry picked from commit 2b241a8206843f43f0568b7b65473ebb593c4740)

Co-authored-by: atalman <atalman@fb.com>