Fix quick action route-selected expense tabs

[kaziiza]

Issue: #76229

Summary

• Prefer the explicit route-selected tab over a persisted Onyx tab when initializing IOU and distance request start pages.
• Rebuild stale IOU/distance drafts when the request type matches but the report ID changed.
• Route distance odometer quick actions directly to the odometer tab.

Root Cause

Quick-action routes can include a nested request tab, such as scan receipt or odometer, but the Onyx-backed tab navigator initialized from persisted selected tab state first. If a stale draft had the same request type but belonged to a previous report, the reset hook returned early and the user could land on the wrong create flow after login.

Tests

• npm test -- tests/unit/OnyxTabNavigatorTest.ts tests/unit/QuickActionNavigationTest.ts tests/actions/IOU/MoneyRequestTest.ts tests/ui/IOURequestStartPageTest.tsx --runInBand
• npx eslint on the changed files
• npm run typecheck
• git diff --check on the changed files