fix lora name and rearange wqkv for internlm2

[RunningLeon]

Motivation

fix lora name and rearange lora of wqkv for internlm2

Modification

• fix loading lora name with '.' like :

  "target_modules": [
    "attention.wo",
    "attention.wqkv",
    "feed_forward.w1",
    "feed_forward.w3",
    "feed_forward.w2"
  ]

• rearange lora of wqkv for internlm2

BC-breaking (Optional)

Does the modification introduce changes that break the backward-compatibility of the downstream repositories?
If so, please describe how it breaks the compatibility and how the downstream projects should modify their code to keep compatibility with this PR.

Use cases (Optional)

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Checklist

1. Pre-commit or other linting tools are used to fix the potential lint issues.
2. The modification is covered by complete unit tests. If not, please add more unit tests to ensure the correctness.
3. If the modification has a dependency on downstream projects of a newer version, this PR should be tested with all supported versions of downstream projects.
4. The documentation has been modified accordingly, like docstring or example tutorials.

[RunningLeon]

@zhulinJulia24 fixed requirements in this pr