[lua, sql] Fix item names and sortnames to match retail data

[sruon]

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What does this pull request do?

Aligns item names:

• Corrects various typos
• Corrects bad casing
• Corrects misaligned item names that did not adhere to the most common rules being applied for either column.
  • return name.lower().replace(" ", "_").replace("\u2019", "").replace("'", "").replace(":", "").replace('"', "") - parenthesis as well for name.
• Updates enums here and there.

Apathy and arrogance items were swapped for some reason

YAML dumped from the dats.

Steps to test these changes