Update to net10

[ardalis]

Now that .NET 10 has shipped let's upgrade to use it. And Aspire (see related issue)

[KyleMcMaster]

This should include updating dependencies to .NET 10 as well as Aspire to version 13.x. Please update any directory.Build.props file to have a TargetFramework value of net10 and use central package management for Nuget packages.

Please run all tests and verify functionality wherever possible.