Update QoLA reducing [compile time, kernel count, lib size] by ~2x (Diet QoLA)

[Micky774]

Description

Updates QoLA to a new subcommit that relies on a custom patch to AITER's CK submodule, introducing a TE-specific receipt for CK's MHA code generating mechanism, shrinking FWD kernels by 10x and BWD by ~1.2x -- total shrinkage of ~2x across FWD/BWD cumulatively. This shrinkage includes the number of kernels, library size, and compile time.

This PR is primarily testing for Micky774/QoLA#2

Fixes # (issue)

Type of change

• Documentation change (change only to the documentation, either a fix or a new content)
• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Infra/Build change
• Code refactoring

Changes

Please list the changes introduced in this PR:

• Adds custom CK receipt filter
• Adds receipt specification option to manifest

Checklist:

• I have read and followed the contributing guidelines
• The functionality is complete
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes