Bump Gradle, Kotlin, and other major dependencies

[alexander-yevsyukov]

This PR bumps Java version to 17, Gradle version to 8.13, and Kotlin to 2.1.10. Other dependencies were also updated via applying latest config.

Other notable changes

• BuildSpeed submodule was updated to run on Java 17 and all new dependencies.
• The Gradle extension function Project.configureTaskDependencies() was updated to take into account KSP tasks.
• KotlinCompileTesting dependency migrated to [https://github.com/zacsweers/kotlin-compile-testing] because it's more frequently updated than [https://github.com/tschuchortdev/kotlin-compile-testing].

[alexander-yevsyukov]

@armiol, the current roadblock is in the class com.tschuchort.compiletesting.KotlinCompilation, which we use for testing.
The problem is at this line:

	var jvmDefault: String = JvmDefaultMode.DEFAULT.description

The enum JvmDefaultMode in the compiler with version 2.1.10 no longer contains the DEFAULT item.

KotlinCompilation was last updated for compiler 1.9.24 in May last year...

Probably, we'd need to fork.