Refactored SMODS.destroy_cards + added SMODS.pinch_and_remove() and SMODS.is_playing_card() util funcs

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+/*Title, this replaces #1038, and implements most of that PR's functionality;
*Refactored SMODS.destroy_cards() to use an args table
+Added args.delay for in-between-cards delay
+Added args.destroy_func for manually replacing e.g. Card:start_dissolve() with your own function.
+Added SMODS.pinch_and_remove()
+Added SMODS.is_playing_card() (checks card.playing_card and card.ability/config.set == 'Enhanced'/'Default')

Additional Info:

• I didn't modify api's or I've made a PR to the wiki repo.
• I didn't modify api's or I've updated lsp definitions.
• I didn't make new lovely files or all new lovely files have appropriate priority.