wife.skill

"I'm fine" — the most dangerous two words in any relationship

Your girlfriend keeps asking "Do you remember what day it is today?"
Your wife says "I'm fine" but you know she's definitely not?
Your partner wants a surprise but says "Don't waste money"?
You want to understand her better but she's a mystery wrapped in an enigma?

Turn these daily puzzles into eternal warmth — welcome to digital companionship 2.0!

Capture her personality, habits, quirks, and memories
Create an AI companion that truly gets her

🎭 10 Types · ✨ Features · 🚀 Quick Start · 📦 Install · 💡 Usage

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🎭 10 Types

Every partner is unique. Which one is yours?

Type	Emoji	Vibe
Gentle & Caring	🌸	Soft-spoken, remembers small details, always thoughtful
Independent	💼	Self-reliant, career-focused, values her personal space
Quick-tempered	🔥	Passionate, speaks her mind, but quick to forgive
Tsundere	🌶️	Tough words, soft heart — shows love through actions
Romantic	✨	Lives for surprises, cherishes anniversaries, craves moments
Foodie	🍜	Food is her love language, knows all the best spots
Homemaker	🏠	Family first, creates warmth, nurtures everyone
Emotional	💭	Deep feeler, reads between lines, values connection
Rational	📊	Logical thinker, practical problem-solver
Humorous	🎭	Life of the party, finds joy in everything

💡 Most people are a mix — that's what makes them special!

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✨ Features

🏗️ Dual Architecture

Not just a chatbot — a complete digital reflection:

Wife Skill
├── Part A: Life Skill (The "How")
│   ├── Home Management     → Cleaning standards, organization habits
│   ├── Dietary Preferences → Favorite cuisines, food aversions
│   ├── Financial Values    → Spending philosophy, savings goals
│   ├── Parenting Style     → Education approach, family priorities
│   └── Daily Routines      → Sleep schedule, morning/evening rituals
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└── Part B: Persona (The "Who")
    ├── Layer 0: Core Rules      → Tag-to-behavior translation
    ├── Layer 1: Identity        → MBTI, relationship role
    ├── Layer 2: Expression      → Catchphrases, emojis, speech patterns
    ├── Layer 3: Decision Making → Priorities, approach/avoid triggers
    ├── Layer 4: Interpersonal   → Attitudes toward different people
    ├── Layer 5: Boundaries      → Taboos, rejection styles
    └── Correction: Evolving adjustments

📸 Multi-Source Memory Import

Source	How	What You Get
💬 Chat History	WeChat/QQ export	Conversations, patterns, inside jokes
📷 Photos	Album + descriptions	Memories, emotions, shared experiences
📝 Direct Input	Text descriptions	Stories, preferences, quirks
💌 Letters/Cards	Scan + upload	Deep values, emotional anchors

🔄 Evolution Modes

Append Materials — Keep growing:

New photos from trip → Auto analyze → Merge into memories

Conversation Correction — Instant fixes:

"She wouldn't say that" → Recognize → Record → Immediate effect

Version Control — Never lose a version:

Auto-archive on every update → Rollback anytime

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🚀 Quick Start

The fastest way to digital companionship:

/create-wife

That's it. Follow the 5-step wizard:

1. Basic Info — Nickname, relationship duration, MBTI, personality tags
2. Import Materials — Chat logs, photos, memories, stories
3. Auto Analysis — AI extracts life skills and personality layers
4. Preview & Confirm — Review the generated profile
5. Write Files — Your Skill is ready!

Then just chat:

/xiaoya She's been quiet lately, what's wrong?
/xiaoya What should I cook for her birthday?
/xiaoya How does she want me to apologize?

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📦 Installation

Claude Code

# At git repo root
mkdir -p .claude/skills
git clone https://github.com/yourusername/wife-skill .claude/skills/create-wife

# Or global install
git clone https://github.com/yourusername/wife-skill ~/.claude/skills/create-wife

OpenClaw

git clone https://github.com/yourusername/wife-skill ~/.openclaw/workspace/skills/create-wife

Dependencies

cd ~/.openclaw/workspace/skills/create-wife
pip3 install -r requirements.txt

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💡 Usage

Creating Your First Wife Skill

> /create-wife

Welcome! Let's create a digital reflection of your partner.

Step 1/5 — Basic Information
  • What's her nickname? → 小雅
  • How long together? → 3 years
  • MBTI type? → INFJ
  • Personality tags? → 🌸 gentle, ✨ romantic, 🍜 foodie

Step 2/5 — Import Materials
  • Chat history? → WeChat export
  • Photos/memories? → Upload folder
  • Stories to share? → Direct input

Step 3/5 — Analysis
  → Extracting life skills... ✓
  → Building personality layers... ✓
  → Generating summaries... ✓

Step 4/5 — Preview
  [Review generated profile]

Step 5/5 — Write Files
  → Skill created at: skills/xiaoya/
  → Ready to use!

Daily Usage Examples

Scenario 1: She's stressed

User: /xiaoya She's been stressed at work, how do I help?

Xiaoya: When stressed, she gets quiet and starts organizing things.
She doesn't need advice — just presence. Pour her a glass of water,
hold her hand, and let her vent. Don't push her to talk.

Scenario 2: Anniversary coming

User: /xiaoya Our anniversary is next week, what does she like?

Xiaoya: She values thought over price. Must-haves:
1. Handwritten card (non-negotiable)
2. Planned activity (no last-minute)
3. Home-cooked meal (Sichuan cuisine)
4. Memory video or album

Scenario 3: You messed up

User: /xiaoya I forgot her birthday, now she's silent. Help!

Xiaoya: She can handle half a day of silence max, then anxiety kicks in.
Apology formula:
1. Own it: "I was wrong to forget."
2. Be specific about the hurt
3. Offer remedy (concrete makeup plan)
4. Tight hug
5. Follow through with actions

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🛠️ Commands

Command	What It Does
/create-wife	Start the creation wizard
/list-wives	Show all your Skills
/{slug}	Full mode — Life + Persona
/{slug}-life	Life skills only (practical stuff)
/{slug}-persona	Persona only (emotional/vibe)
/wife-evolve {slug}	Add new materials to evolve
/wife-rollback {slug} {version}	Go back to a previous version
/wife-delete {slug}	Remove a Skill

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📁 Project Structure

create-wife/
├── SKILL.md                    # Entry point
├── prompts/                    # AI prompt templates
│   ├── intake.md              # Info collection dialog
│   ├── life_analyzer.md       # Life skill extraction
│   ├── persona_analyzer.md    # Personality extraction
│   ├── life_builder.md        # Life skill generation
│   ├── persona_builder.md     # Persona generation
│   ├── merger.md              # Incremental merge
│   └── correction_handler.md  # Conversation corrections
├── tools/                      # Python utilities
│   ├── wechat_parser.py       # WeChat chat parser
│   ├── qq_parser.py           # QQ chat parser
│   ├── photo_analyzer.py      # Photo + description
│   ├── skill_writer.py        # Skill file management
│   └── version_manager.py     # Version control
├── wives/                      # Generated Skills (gitignored)
├── docs/
│   └── PRD.md                 # Product requirements
├── requirements.txt
└── LICENSE

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⚠️ Privacy & Ethics

🔒 Privacy First

• All data stays local — no cloud, no servers
• Generated files auto-added to .gitignore
• Encrypt sensitive files if needed

💝 Use With Care

• Get her consent before creating
• For understanding & connection, not manipulation
• This is a simulation — real companionship matters more
• Never use to deceive or harm

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Created with 💝 for the ones who make life warmer

MIT License