feat: Support setting IPC options in FlightSQL call options

[peasee]

Rationale for this change

I would like to specify the IPC stream compression settings for the FlightSQL ExecuteIngest command. Currently, there is no way to apply IPC options to the writer stream from the ExecuteIngest method.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Introduces a ExecuteIngestWithIPC which allows passing IPC options
• Retains the existing behaviour of ExecuteIngest
• Consolidates the shared execute ingest behaviour into a private executeIngest

Are these changes tested?

• Tested with new unit tests to validate the record batch frames are sent with LZ4 compression when the ipc.WithLZ4() option is passed in the call options

Are there any user-facing changes?

• Yes - introduces a new public method ExecuteIngestWithIPC