[Java] Flaky tests meta-issue

[lidavidm]

Describe the enhancement requested

• [Java][FlightRPC] Flaky test TestDoExchange.tearDown #384
• [Java][FlightRPC] TestBasicOperation.getStreamLargeBatch is flaky on Windows CI #236
• [Java] Enable allocator logging in CI #235
• [Java] Flaky test ArrowFlightPreparedStatementTest.testPreparedStatementExecutionOnce in JDBC Flight SQL driver #210
• [Java][CI] JdbcToArrowCommentMetadataTest fails on Java Linux Conda release verification job arrow#35932

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