CAMEL-22692: Upgrade Infinispan to 16.0.1

[jamesnetherton]

Minor note - I had to rework InfinispanEmbeddedConsumerTest. The Infinispan switch to virtual threads seems to impact the cache event listeners. The pre & non-pre events are broadcast from separate threads, so the order Camel processes them is not guaranteed.

Things seem more predictable when virtual threads are disabled, pre / non-pre events come from the same thread.

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[davsclaus]

Maybe something to add in the 4.17 upgrade doc about that out of order with virtual threads

[jamesnetherton]

Maybe something to add in the 4.17 upgrade doc about that out of order with virtual threads

I added a few notes to the migration guide.