[DRAFT, EPIC] Full lambda support

[gstvg]

Some features haven't been implement and other pulled out from #18921 to keep it from getting too large (>4k LOC) and should be implemented in follow on PR's:

Major features:

• Column capture support, as well as variable capture from outer lambdas
• array_transform index parameter
• Substrait producing and consuming
• Making logical LambdaVariable field optional to make it easier for expr_api users
• Protobuf support

Minor features:

• Named parameters like ScalarUDF already supports: func(a => 3)
• Expr simplifier optimizations for LambdaVariable
• AliasedLambdaUDF to add more aliases to an existing LambdaUDF
• Optional ScalarUDFImpl methods not present on LambdaUDF(some are unlikely to be used and could be added on demand only):
  • simplify
  • with_updated_config
  • preimage
  • placement
  • evaluate_bounds
  • propagate_constraints
  • output_ordering
  • preserves_lex_ordering