Parquet limit pushdown (#5404)

[tustvold]

Which issue does this PR close?

Relates to #5404

Rationale for this change

apache/arrow-rs#3633 added the ability to push down limits to the parquet reader. This is particularly important when filter pushdown is enabled on ParquetOptions (soon to be default), as it allows the limit to be applied before late materialization, which has significant performance benefits

What changes are included in this PR?

Are these changes tested?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[alamb]

Thank you @tustvold -- it would be nice to have a test for this, but I am not sure there is any way to test this really (other than performance benchmarks).

[jackwener]

A nice job. Thank you @tustvold

[jackwener]

Thank you @tustvold -- it would be nice to have a test for this, but I am not sure there is any way to test this really (other than performance benchmarks).

There is tpch in the current benchmarks, may we consider adding clickbench?

[alamb]

There is tpch in the current benchmarks, may we consider adding clickbench?

It is a good idea @jackwener -- I have it on my list this week to do some more organizing related to benchmarking. I definitely agree that clickbench would be super helpful

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 58cd1bf and contender = 4118076. 4118076 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
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Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java