[Improvement][Metrics] Use tags to indicate task / workflow execution status for metrics

[EricGao888]

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• Currently, as shown in https://dolphinscheduler.apache.org/en-us/docs/dev/user_doc/guide/metrics/metrics.html, we use metric names to indicate whether the related counter / timer is used for some failures or successes. For example, we use ds.workflow.instance.failure.count to count failed workflow instances and ds.workflow.instance.success.count for succeeded workflow instances.
• However, it would be a better practice to indicate this kind of info in metric tags instead of names, as described in this comment.
• related: [DSIP-8][Metrics] Improve DolphinScheduler Monitoring #9324

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