[enhancement]MySQL ODBC should use a variable driver without a fixed value

[BenjaminWenqiYu]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #12223

Problem summary

Users should use variable diver for mysql odbc, but now it is a fixed value.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior:
   • Yes
   • No
   • I don't know
2. Has unit tests been added:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
3. Has document been added or modified:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
4. Does it need to update dependencies:
   • Yes
   • No
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
   • Yes (If Yes, please explain WHY)
   • No

Further comments

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